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Loving Him Right: Part 2 by Simon Bwerinofa

[caption id="attachment_2460" align="aligncenter" width="427"] Photo Cred: Black Bride Online[/caption] PART 2   In part one we looked at what seems to be the blueprint from God on roles when relating to our better half. We are now going to look...

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Loving Him Right: Part 1 by Simon Bwerinofa

[caption id="attachment_2441" align="aligncenter" width="564"] Photo Cred: Classy Menswear Tumblr[/caption] PART 1   People have all sorts of opinions about romantic relationships often informed by past experiences or seasons. In terms of negative opinions around these types of relationships, you generally...

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bAw African Love Series: Victor & Gail Masondo (Episode 1)

[caption id="attachment_2372" align="aligncenter" width="5184"] Uncle Victor & Aunt Gail Masondo. Photo Cred: Samuel Sibanda[/caption] 1 John 4:18 states that, “There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one...

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Tools To Navigate The Love Trail by Rumbidzayi Dube

[caption id="attachment_2269" align="aligncenter" width="564"] Photo Cred: Etsy Online[/caption]   The month of love is coming to an end. Let’s be honest, as much everyone and their mama has the low-down on love, it’s not like all our problems are miraculously...

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Our Perfect Expectations Of Love

[caption id="attachment_1988" align="alignnone" width="564"] Photo Cred: Munaluchibride[/caption]   There is no such thing as a guy who is “ready for marriage”.   Well, this is the conclusion I have come to based on endless hours of reading up on relationships and...

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Dreams For The Black African Father

[caption id="attachment_1310" align="aligncenter" width="564"] Photo Cred: Instagram[/caption]   Hi bAw family   In honour of Father’s Day this Sunday, I thought I would pen dreams and wishes that I believe some black African women (bAw) have for their fathers. The...

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10 Things I Appreciate About Black African Mothers

[caption id="attachment_1201" align="alignnone" width="1024"] The woman I am so blessed to call Mama[/caption] In a couple of days, many different countries around the world will be honouring mothers in wonderful ways. The 14th of May is a day that I...

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To The Man I Love, But Am Yet To Meet

Me in beautiful Cape Town in July 2015 You see me. All of me. And not once have you shrunk back from my awkward talkative nature or loud laugh or my desperate need to analyse everything. Instead, you have a...

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5 Warning Signs of a Christian Guy Who is Going to Waste Your Time

Photo Cred: Madame Noire Online I’ve been witnessing and reflecting on a rather disturbing way of relating between guys and girls in our society today – and most especially in the church. Particularly how girls allow themselves to become entangled...

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Thought-Provoking Tuesdays: Your Story

[caption id="attachment_477" align="alignnone" width="1639"] Photo Cred: YIPA Online[/caption] I received this short devotional from my mother-friend, Aunt Gail. It really made me question whether I honestly understand my story as God has purposed it. Do I short-change His vision for...

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